Wut does it mean when a girl says shes ganna change 4 u but she just argus with u?

she said it three times that she will change and succeded but then they came back after like a week

no we have been broken up for 3 months and she sais she changed but is still causing problems .wut should i doWut does it mean when a girl says shes ganna change 4 u but she just argus with u?
And this is why you need to find someone who fits with you AS THEY ARE. It's never a good idea to try to mold someone....Move on.
STOP TAKING HER BACK THAT WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR PROBLEM.Wut does it mean when a girl says shes ganna change 4 u but she just argus with u?
some ppl just can't change...maybe u should stay away from her...she might change but i doubt 3 months is long enough...





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She wont change, my ex girlfriend used to say the same things to me. I have known her for 3 years and she has never been able to keep a job for longer than 3 months. She also recently got an abortion due to giving sex for drugs.Wut does it mean when a girl says shes ganna change 4 u but she just argus with u?
people cant change. No matter how much they want to. They are who they are, and even if they try to moderate themselves somewhat, they will feel suffocated and suppressed.



Chances are she does really love you. But she wants you to love her as she is. So she starts to feel down because she cant change for you, leading to her feeling like shes failing you. This then makes her ratty.



She also then probably begins to feel resentful that you want her to change in the first place. Leading to her getting rude or abrupt with you, despite the fact she loves you.



So the basics are, you either love someone, faults, different opinions and all, or it doesnt work. They either get thoroughly miserable that you dont accept them. Or they make you miserable because they act distant or snappy all the time.
leave it she is not changing in her heart she is not worth it
Just let it go. Seeing as she hasn't changed after claiming that she will, as you can tell it's just not going to work.



You can't change somebody. You either accept them the way they are, or you don't accept them at all. Move on and go on with your life. You'll find that someone out there that is just what you're looking for.



Good luck.